Testimonial for Inner.U by Robert Quiroz. For so long, I have been struggling in my life, battling my own disappointment in myself. It seemed no matter how much effort I put in to improve my life, I kept stumbling, making the same mistakes over and over again. Inner.U changed my life. What I realized by […]
By Laurie Gerber w/ Dr. Lauren Streicher “Orgasms are like blowing your nose.” Yup, that is the kind of thing my coach (and creator of The Handel Method®) Lauren Handel Zander, says. I chuckle and ask what she means. Sometimes she speaks in koans. “If you need to blow your nose, you just do, you […]
These days, marriages, long term partnerships, whether business or familial, typically end. If, however, they do manage to last, most are pretty uninspired or, at best, a slight upgrade of our parents’ relationship. For example, if our parents never touched publicly, we, on the other hand, might hold hands with our partners. Or if our […]
Did you just roll your eyes at the title? Or, better yet, did you just Google-search me to see who the heck am I that I can be so arrogant as to not only state that my husband wouldn’t cheat on me, but to put it in print? I mean how could I be so […]
You say you want love. You swear you are searching hard for it. You’re on all the sites (or, at least, you’ve tried all the free trials for all of the sites). Your friends and even most people at work kinda sorta know that you are looking for the one. Heck, you (of all people) […]
COACHING LOVE This Valentine’s Day, let me let you in on a secret: everyone is hung up about love! It’s one of the top concerns I hear from my clients. Yes, even the hugely successful feel like they are utterly failing at it. Luckily, I love coaching people about love, unraveling their thought patterns, sorting […]
When you think of a budget, your first thought is probably about your wallet. But did you know that there are other currencies you can spend, save, splurge, and budget? The currencies of life are anything that is used as a medium of exchange. You give one thing, you get another. Currencies of your life […]
Press pause for a moment … on your work deadlines, on your kid’s school schedules, on your holiday plans, on whatever device is ringing and buzzing. How is your love life doing lately? How’s your heart? If you’re single, do you find that you’re not happy with the partners you keep attracting? If you’re coupled, […]
I’ve been coaching men and women on finding love for years, but it recently occurred to me – I’ve been out of the dating scene for a long time! When I was last single, phones were still connected to walls. Facebook didn’t exist, let alone “dating profiles.” Have the rules changed? I googled “how to […]
Often I teach a concept called “love is a verb.” My definition of “love” is caring about the other person’s experience as deeply as you care about your own – how they are feeling, how your actions are impacting them, and what you can do to ensure they feel safe, connected, and loved by you. […]
I’m 56 years old and twice divorced. So what the hell makes me qualified to give advice about how to find your soulmate? Because this March, after EIGHTY SIX first dates with Mr. Wrong, I finally met Mr. Right – the man I’ve been looking for my whole life, but didn’t know how to conjure […]
So, your last relationship ended a few months ago, and you feel ready to step out again. You’re over the hurt feelings, you dealt with your part gracefully and maturely, and you even learned a lot along the way. It’s empowering to know that you can put any situation in the rear view mirror, and […]
