What’s a freak flag? There really are things about you, traits, mannerisms, a style, which are wholly “you.” Those idiosyncrasies, which are unique to you, possibly irksome to others, are your freak flag. Most of us walk around either tripping on our own freak flag or hiding it. Though, I am thinking, there really is […]
Artist and Fabric Designer, Amy Butler, worked with Senior Coach Hildie because she had a dream and wanted help making it happen. Here is her story in her own words … I had a dream for more abundance in my life and career. I envisioned every aspect of my studio life increasing with prosperity. I […]
These days, marriages, long term partnerships, whether business or familial, typically end. If, however, they do manage to last, most are pretty uninspired or, at best, a slight upgrade of our parents’ relationship. For example, if our parents never touched publicly, we, on the other hand, might hold hands with our partners. Or if our […]
Have you ever been demoted, fired or let go from a job? I have. At the time, I had been doing legal work at an impressive, innovative company. I got paid well, my colleagues were nice, and when I described what I did to other people I put a pleasant spin on things without going […]
Did you just roll your eyes at the title? Or, better yet, did you just Google-search me to see who the heck am I that I can be so arrogant as to not only state that my husband wouldn’t cheat on me, but to put it in print? I mean how could I be so […]
You say you want love. You swear you are searching hard for it. You’re on all the sites (or, at least, you’ve tried all the free trials for all of the sites). Your friends and even most people at work kinda sorta know that you are looking for the one. Heck, you (of all people) […]
COACHING LOVE This Valentine’s Day, let me let you in on a secret: everyone is hung up about love! It’s one of the top concerns I hear from my clients. Yes, even the hugely successful feel like they are utterly failing at it. Luckily, I love coaching people about love, unraveling their thought patterns, sorting […]
It’s nearing the end of January, and I have one question for you: how are those New Year’s resolutions you made earlier this month? You know – the ones that sounded like – Lose weight. Eat healthy. Quit smoking. Save money. Be better. Blah blah blah. They’re so common that it’s almost a cliche! Though […]
It’s that time of year again: the beginning. For some of us, the end of 2015 is great news – a relief even. It’s a chance to look back at the year and kiss (or kick) it goodbye. It’s a collective new beginning, where many of us are inspired to make big changes or, at […]
No one really gets anything done around the holidays, right? To the best of my knowledge, most people usually spend that time sleeping in late, watching movies with the kids, grazing on pre- and post-holiday snacks, toying around with new presents – all the while contemplating the long list of “ways everything will totally be […]
Holidays are here, and much of this time involves participating in rituals we both love and hate: last-minute shopping, familiar sibling arguments, predictable overeating and drinking. Truth be told, we even resent the happy rituals sometimes, like the hours spent preparing Christmas dinner or wrapping presents. It’s easy to lose sight of the joy and […]
