Author Archives: Handel Group

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Times Have Changed, but Dating Rules Haven’t

I’ve been coaching men and women on finding love for years, but it recently occurred to me – I’ve been out of the dating scene for a long time! When I was last single, phones were still connected to walls. Facebook didn’t exist, let alone “dating profiles.” Have the rules changed? I googled “how to […]

How to Give a Crap About Homework

It’s that time again – either you or your kids are back at school, and that means dealing with homework. Or maybe your version of homework is that project at work you’ve been blowing off, or that long list of chores and home repairs that has been gathering dust in the back of your mind. […]

Why You Gossip, and What It Means

Before you think, “Gossip, who me? Never!” Think again. Everyone gossips, whether they believe they do or not. Remember when your co-worker complained about your crazy boss, and you nodded in agreement? Or when you told your friend that thing you didn’t like about your other friend? Or that concerned conversation you had about a […]

Want a Better Life? Change the View

Imagine that the inner workings of your brain are wired together just like a computer. Your own personal Operating System. Its job is simply to keep all your various programs humming in action; it drives everything – dictating how well you perform, what results you produce, how you think and feel. Let’s refer to it […]

PhD of the Head, Taps Into Her Heart

Ever notice that no matter how MANY great, appreciative emails/texts/calls you receive, you only really care about the one lousy one you got? Hell, you talk about it for days, forward it to friends, and though you don’t bring it to Michael’s Art Supply to frame it, you might as well. Why is that? WE LIKE […]

Cooling Off a Hot Head

We’ve all been there – in a situation where somebody annoys the crap out of us.  That little voice in your head goes off… Are you freakin’ kidding me? Can you believe what she just did to me? What is this person thinking?! Hell, sometimes we even say that stuff out loud. I find myself […]

The Secret to Summoning Your Soulmate

I’m 56 years old and twice divorced. So what the hell makes me qualified to give advice about how to find your soulmate? Because this March, after EIGHTY SIX first dates with Mr. Wrong, I finally met Mr. Right – the man I’ve been looking for my whole life, but didn’t know how to conjure […]

What Stinks About Mommy?

Everybody has a few pesky personality traits, whether they know them or not. Bossy, short-tempered, melancholic, fake-nice, judgmental … these traits don’t just hide in a box under your bed. They follow you everywhere you go, at work and at home, tripping you up along the way until you deal with them and shut them […]