Author Archives: Lauren Zander

CEO, Co-founder and Chairwoman

Maybe the problem is you

Lauren Zander appeared on Reuters TV to talk with Fred Katayama about her new book, Maybe It’s You, and how humans habitually lie to themselves. Press play to find out how to begin changing your narrative when it comes to your career and life.

Are you running out of time or just running all the time?

For most of us, the subject of TIME is still a very abstract concept. We all know we could be managing our time more effectively, but no amount of list-making or fancy iPhone apps has changed the way we feel about our time – be it stressed, sad, overwhelmed, or unfulfilled. There is no quick […]

ANY WAY YOU SNICE IT, YOU’RE BEING FAKE

Forget frogs, vermin, locusts, darkness, blood, and even seders themselves. I’ve discovered another plague on humanity. And it’s an even bigger problem than, say, lice. We’ve got snice. What’s snice, you wonder? It’s a personality trait I’ve coached thousands of people to dial down because, truth is, there’s not only no truth in it, it’s […]

The 3H’s Guide™ to Popping the Question

The process we devised at HG isn’t complicated; in fact, it’s so straightforward that we find we can apply it to many different types of people at every stage of love – finding it, fixing it or just figuring out what they want from it. But, it is especially handy (and absolutely critical!) when it comes to […]

Build Friendships That Matter

Should certain friendships have an expiration date? You know, like Parmalat? Okay, not necessarily the nicest of questions, for sure, but an honest one. I mean, imagine if you lived your whole life on a boat. Think Noah’s ark! And just as Noah was in charge of filling his ark with animals, you would be […]

So … What is a Life Coach?

I’ve been coaching people for over twenty years now. So when life coaching started to take off back in the 90s, I was right there. Yes—right alongside the neon, denim, and tongue piercings. Some of us (along with denim) stuck. Some, not so much. However, to this day I often find that the title “life […]

Pack your suitcase. You’re going somewhere you’ve never been.

OK. Imagine this. You’re hosting a summer BBQ. It’s scheduled to start in one hour. But you haven’t done a thing to prepare. Not one thing. There’s a knock on the door. Your family arrives adorned in cute sundresses and carrying bowls of fruit salad. You’re lying on the sofa watching a rerun of “Grey’s […]

Maybe It’s YOU™ at Wanderlust Festival

Let’s admit it; life is tough. And the things you really want in life often seem impossibly far out of reach. But what if you stopped blaming others (i.e. your boss, your mother, your boss’s mother, etc.) for what’s holding you back and took a close, unfiltered look at the real root of the problem: […]

Banish Your Vice for Good in 6 Steps

It’s summertime and for many that means fun, food, and festivities. Whether you’re heading to Bali or to the bar (sand or sports), it’s also time to also keep an eye out for your beach brat. Trust me. You’ll thank me next time you eye a miraclesuit and consider buying one (were it not for […]

3 H’s Guide™ to Finding the One

If you are TRULY done playing blind man’s bluff when it comes to love, join Lauren Zander, author, life coach, and creator of The Handel Method®, for a hot and heated presentation on her wildly honest, BS-free, dating method: 3 H’s Guide™ to Finding the One. At this lively, unabashed session, you will take a […]

Yes. Winter IS coming (when it comes to your love life).

Yes. It’s that time again: summer time. And for some of you that means good times ahead. Woo hoo. You know, weekend getaways with your partner, hand-holding balmy beach walks, practice empty nest time with your spouse if your kids are away at camp. But for many who are looking for love but haven’t found […]